The Story Behind It
This blog is a tribute to people who believed in me even when I didn’t keep faith in myself.
By BHOOMI DIWA
There will be few people who will come in your life and believe in you so much that you by default want to be a better version of yourself. I was watching gossip girls recently and I realized the way Blair Waldorf told Chuck Bass I believe in you and he as the heir of Bass industries goes and invest in the hotel industry. While when Blair Waldorf face a challenge to be the Queen B of her new college, chuck makes sure with his actions to remind her that she is the only one who could make Chuck Bass say “I love you“ and nobody can take away her personality. Life will throw curveballs but what keeps you going is the people who believe in you and keeps you going. Like a flower, we can flourish if we are provided with the right light and environment. Otherwise, you can meet the devil within us waiting near the corner. I still remember one of such moments which defined me and changed me to the person who I am today. Summer of 2012 with the cloudy sky around 4 AM, I was feeling so lost and was seeing the dark shades of me was ready to be out in open. Suddenly one of my friend calls and my friend heard me out for almost an hour. Being the perfectionist I expected to be called out names or to be told off at least and I asked the same question. I still remember the response, you have already understood your mistake you have made and if I scold you now you will lose the safe home feeling rather I have a faith in you that you will never repeat that. This was a gesture that I try to extend to everybody whatever may happen till the time anyone has not done any crime or are not harming themselves be there for them, you can make people see best in themselves with your belief.
“Treat a man as he is, and he will remain what he is. Treat a man as he can and should be, and he will become what he can and should be “
Believing in others and believing in yourself is oneself has the maximum power human kind has ever possessed.
“The biggest difference I’ve noticed between successful people and unsuccessful people isn’t intelligence or opportunity or resources. It’s the belief that they can make their goals happen ” ~ James Clear
There is a reason because energy follows thought. Have you ever seen any team where the person leading them believes in their team even though the team has the lowest IQ yet they excel and stand with each other in thick and thins. The reverse is also true. Your body language, voice, words and energy will say it without you expressing it. If you want to give anything to people around you is believe in the goodness. No wonder rapport is like light even in a dark room there is still light and rapport exist even before we interact with someone good or bad but it exists. The greatest gift you can give anyone is believing in 100% for their growth and mindset shifts. Be generous in giving praises and celebrate when people are on the right track. Nothing makes people want to achieve something more than the appreciation they receive. It’s like sunlight for max people without sunlight many people can go into depression. Anyone can unleash their potential and achieve their goals but sometimes they need a little push and some trust in them.
Before we start believing in others, learn to believe in yourself. Whatever may happen always remember even if you face few failures or roadblocks they are part of the journey. Somebody asked one of the successful people what is the secret of your success. He told making the right decisions. He was further questioned how he always make the right decisions. His reply still amuses me making a lot of bad decisions. Learn to take risks in life as much as you can . In case you find yourself doubting yourself remember the past and what you have achieved and have so far. The journey may be long but the road you have taken is crafting so well for you small hiccups shouldn’t make you doubt yourself.
I really will remember the line we all have the powers, we
are all mirrors of our thoughts. Take good care of yourself and people around us , the mirror will always be good. Believe can move mountains than small things are just . If you believe in positive things good things will follow and you will find opportunity in every adversity.