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When I first heard about the Darwin’s Delay theory I couldn’t believe my eyes when reading the article Darwin’s Delay and the guy who gave the theory of the survival of the fittest had the fear. It was mentioned that he couldn’t publish his theory until situation called for it for 20 years.  He had the fear was released through the dream analysis in which ‘a person was hung & came to life’ as not about a third person, as Darwin recorded in his notebook, but actually, in a Freudian sense, about Darwin himself because of his ‘fear of dire punishment for thinking’ by Geuter. Somehow this fact was hided from common people for long time  saying he was patient data collector. But whatever has been said I Still believe  if Charles hadn’t gone the fear himself how would we have the fear has a biological basis, when he noted that nearly all animals exhibit fear in the same manner. How the Fear conditioning happens. If you don’t agree fear of unknown and how people will behave on his theory. I felt  like saying this to him“Duniya to kehti hai, kehti reh jaayegiKhud jo na samjhegi, tumko samjhayegi”

World would have known the what we know today if he had been brave enough  If somebody has understand how people react to unknown we can understand it through the short story of “The Dancing Fool” of Zog –A flying saucer creature named Zog arrived on Earth to explain how wars could be prevented and how cancer could be cured. He brought the information from Margo, a planet where the natives conversed by means of farts and tap dancing.Zog landed at night in Connectitut. He had no sooner touched down than he saw a house on fire. He rushed into the house, farting and tap dancing, warning the people about the terrible danger they were in. The head of the house brained Zog with a golf club. But does that mean that we should leave something because we are fearful of the what our peers will say. If this was the case we might not had the famous theories given by Charles himself. He wouldn’t have been who he was so sometimes we might have the fear of vast opposition especially in our environment be it office, home when we stand for what we believe in and against the set society’s norm. So, do you want to miss the chance of being the next Charles ‘s . But I will profess anybody to enter the land of unknowns without much calculated risks like climbing of the mountains. Let’s assume we want to part of the herd even though we have the capability to do that. I know fear can weakens and paralyzes us but if we had a to die , do you want to die with a heavy heart that you could have achieved more but couldn’t do so. It will be too late, whenever you are in doubt what to do  just remember if this is the last day of your life how will you react ? Do you want to be remembered as person who did what was right for him . It’s not only for the work we do, this is for the relationship this Gen- Z is going through as well. For instant gratification half of the people are in relationships, marriage in which they don’t understand the emotionally and mental space the other person is in. I am not saying them to wait but if you don’t try chairs you will not be sure which one to buy but don’t choose the chair which doesn’t fight your personality to be part of liking the popular . Strangely they have constipation even when they love somebody they can’t express it easilyFor relationships I believe in one fundaRishto woh rishta hai jisme bandhan na hoDil mein tammana ho warna dhadkan na ho This in simple language just means that we might have some fears of being left alone but trust me the best relationships are those which are based on the heart but there is no restriction. You connect because you both want not because it’s age, it’s your parent want or somebody else is getting married etc or any lame excuse . Moment we learn to do what we want to do with full heart we will not be worried about society , people around us be it daily life hassles . This society as mentioned earlier will keep on saying and teaching you things even which they can’t follow. Learn to love yourself and stop procrastination since world is waiting for the another Darwin theory not the Darwin’s Delay